It’s easy to reduce Thanksgiving to a date on the calendar. A meal. A moment. A tradition. 
But what if it’s more than that? 

What if Thanksgiving is meant to be a mindset? 

Gratitude, when seen merely as a seasonal sentiment, loses its transformative power. But gratitude, when practiced as a way of life, changes everything—from your mood, to your relationships, to your work culture. 

Let’s explore why. 

In our leadership trainings, we teach that appreciation isn’t fluff—it’s fuel. In fact, there is a direct correlation between feeling valued and choosing to stay in the team or company. Employees stick around longer. Team morale lifts. Conflicts lessen. Productivity rises. All because someone said, “Thank you. I appreciate you.” 

That’s the key. Not just what someone did, but who they are. 

So this Thanksgiving, try this phrase: “I appreciate you for who you are and how you showed up.” It will reach deeper than you think. People don’t just want to be noticed—they want to be known. 

Back in the 1930s, premature babies were dying—until one nurse broke hospital rules and began to hold them. Touched them. Loved them. After a while, those children began to thrive. 

Appreciation is that kind of “touch.” It gives life. It changes futures. 

You have people around you who are starving for appreciation. Who crave a sense of belonging. And you have the power to change that with a simple, heartfelt word. 

Thanksgiving isn’t just about being thankful—it’s about expressing it. Here’s a simple way to put these thoughts into practice – a Nudge for you: This week, write down the names of three people who need to hear that they matter. Then tell them. 

Appreciate their actions, yes—but don’t stop there. Appreciate their essence. The part of them that brings color to your world. 

You’ll be surprised how much joy you feel when you do. Why? Because appreciation doesn’t just feed the receiver… it nourishes the giver, too. 

 Bottom Line: 

Thanksgiving isn’t a holiday. It’s a leadership skill. 

Use it. Live it. And watch how everything changes. 

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